The love we give away is the only love we keep

Kaulah segalanya...

Kau merubah segala,
Cinta yang ku dahaga,
Kehadiran dirimu menyinarikan semula hatiku,
Kaulah segalanya,
yang menyinar hidupku, kasih
Hanya satunya yang ku cintai

Hulur tanganmu kasih,
sambut cintaku,
jangan tinggalkan aku seorang diri
tak sanggup lagi dilukai

Maafkan aku, jika salahku,
Peristiwa yang pernah ku alami dulu
Aku tahu, betapa pahit mu,
menerima sejarah hidupku

Kaulah segalanya,
yang menyinar hidupku, kasih
Hanya satunya yang ku cintai

Sambutlah cintaku
Jangan kau pergi dari sisiku
Cintaku padamu ikhlas sejati

Cintaku padamu, ikhlas sejati

love's giving

love is patient and kind;
it is not jealous or conceited or proud;
love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable;
love does not keep a record of wrongs;
love is not happy with evil but is happy with truth;
love never gives up and its faith, hope and patience never fail.

Mungkin..

Biarkanlah saja diriku sendirian tanpamu
Biarkanlah saja diriku sepi tanpa kata
Bukan maksud untuk membisu
Sepi tanpa kata
Terpisahnya kita kerana mengejar impian

Mungkinkan bersama
Dua jiwa ini
Dalam mencari cinta sejati(nan suci)
Mungkinkah segala derita di jiwa
Akan terubat jua akhirnya

Biarkanlah saja diriku
Sendirian tanpamu
Terpisahnya kita kerana
Mengejar impian

Hanya satu pintaku
Sabarlah menanti
Ku kan pulang bersama cinta

love, lust & marriage

HOW TO DIFFERENTIATE BETWEEN LOVE, LUST AND MARRIAGE...


LOVE when your eyes meet across a crowded room
LUST when your tongues meet across a crowded room
MARRIAGE when your belt won't meet around your waist, and you don't care

LOVE when intercourse is called making love
LUST all other times
MARRIAGE what's intercourse?

LOVE when you argue over how many children to have
LUST When you argue over who gets the wet spot
MARRIAGE when you argue over money

LOVE when you share everything you own
LUST when you think twice about giving your partner bus money
MARRIAGE when the bank owns everything

LOVE when it doesn't matter if you don't climax
LUST when the relationship is over if you don't climax
MARRIAGE what's a climax?

LOVE when you phone each other just to say "Hi"
LUST when you phone each other just to organize sex
MARRIAGE when you phone each other to find out what time your son's game starts

LOVE when you write poems about your partner
LUST when all you write is your phone number
MARRIAGE when all you write are check's

LOVE when you show concern for your partners' feelings
LUST when you couldn't give a rip
MARRIAGE when your only concern is what's on TV

LOVE when your farewell is "I love you darling"
LUST when your farewell is "So, same time next week?"
MARRIAGE when your farewell is silent

LOVE when you are proud to be seen in public with your partner
LUST when you only ever see each other in the bedroom
MARRIAGE when you never see each other awake

LOVE when your heart flutters every time you see them
LUST when your groin twitches every time you see them
MARRIAGE when your wallet empties every time you see them

LOVE when nobody else matters
LUST when nobody else knows
MARRIAGE when everybody else matters and you don't care who knows

LOVE when all the songs on the radio describe exactly how you feel
LUST when it's just the same mushy old crap
MARRIAGE when you never listen to music

LOVE when breaking up is something you try not to think about
LUST when staying together is something you try not to think about
MARRIAGE when just getting through today is your only thought

LOVE when you're interested in everything your partner does
LUST when you're only interested in one thing
MARRIAGE when you're not interested in what your partner does and the one thing you're interested in is your golf score

Nine Ways to Tell if Your Love Is Real

How do you know if you are in a lasting relationship? Here's what the expert says:

1-You feel good. A good relationship makes you feel good about yourself.

2-You look forward to spending time with your partner. You don't need to be with other people or go to events to avoid being alone together. You enjoy spending quality time together even when it's quiet.

3-You respect your partner. You hear yourself bragging about your partner. If you find that you're always talking about yourself, you're not focused on your partner or the relationship.

4-You're interested in what your partner thinks. You ask your partner's opinion about issues that are important to you. It's OK if he or she disagrees with you.

5-You accept your partner's quirks. Everyone has them. Even you! If your partner's quirks are endearing or tolerable, you're in good shape. If they really bother you, you should look more closely at the relationship.

6-You're able to work through your problems. It's natural to have some bumps in the relationship road to true bliss. People in healthy relationships see disagreements as a chance to learn more about their partner. However, if you're creating problems, or if you think every fight is the "big one" leading to a breakup, you should probably rethink your relationship.

7-You feel safe. You're not afraid of losing your partner.

8-You can't explain why you're together. Many people coordinate their lives so that they have to be together. But ask yourself if you're together because you truly want to be. If the answer is "yes," then you'll probably stay together. If it's "no," you're bound to have problems — if you haven't already.

9-You don't compare your partner to others. There will always be someone more beautiful, smarter or more athletic than your partner, but you don't care because you only want to be with him or her

Everybody needs a ‘Stanford’!

If you are a big fan of 'Sex and The City', you would understand perfectly what i mean but if you don't, just 'google' it. You'll get the answer. I'm writing about this because i happen to have a stanford! and i love him, a lot! 10 things why i love my ‘standford’:

1- i can say i love you anytime and everytime without feeling scared of the reply or waiting for him to say i love you too coz he'll definitely say it and we both know what it means
2- he's completely honest with you
3- he's just a phone call away although he's an ocean far away (specifically my case)
4- u can take him anywhere and be your date without having to explain to people that he's not your boyfriend coz he doesn’t mind if people think so
5- he has good sense of dressing, he loves shopping with u and he's very observant
6- you can talk about your past, present and future relationship for hours without him falling asleep
7- he's emotional, he’s sensitive and at the same time he's a man!
8- we can spend hours chit chatting and having our ice blended cappucino at starbucks while checking out cute guys... i guess we have the same taste for man
9- he's so ‘happening’
10- he is who he is.. he's real!


By the way, there are 4 great men in my life: my dad, my bestest friend (my everything), my ‘stanford’ and my on-off boyfriend. All of them are special, very special and they mean the world to me. Why have one man when you can have all the 4 of them!

AOWD

I’m officially an Advanced Open Water Diver. Got my ‘certificate' today. Yahoo!! Never thought I could do it. Million thanks to my buddy, Ming and my instructor, Mej Kee! You made my dream come true!

Little Angel

Tomorrow is the Eid Mubarak. Everyone’s back today and the best thing is we have a new comer this year, Aniq.Welcome to the SMF’s family, little angel! Umi loves you!